Hi, I’m Brad
from Our Life Thai.
I’m living in
Thailand, about 40km from the Bangkok financial district and have been married
to a wonderful Thai girl for nearly 2 years.
It was an exhausting process trying to find the best Thai girl for me,
with numerous trips back and forward from Australia to Thailand. I had dated several Thai girls, both in Thailand
and in Australia and have chat to literally hundreds on dating websites and on the
chat app LINE before I finally found my amazing wife.
These
questions are not in any particular order and should be asked before you
actually come to Thailand to meet your special lady. All my questions are based on you looking for
a good Thai girl who upholds traditional Thai culture and values.
And by the
way, if you intend to get a Thai girlfriend just for your holiday, use her for
sex and a free travel guide. DON’T. You’re a cheap bastard and you don’t have any
respect for women.
But if you
still have your tiny heart set on doing this, BE HONEST, say this in your
online profile and tell the girls that you chat to what you really want. There is always someone for everyone in life.
My main
point - DON’T be a cheap bastard.
Please keep
all your communication to Thai girls polite. Remember, you’re chatting to people who for
the most part are genuinely looking for love, please have respect:
1. Do you want to stay in Thailand or are you
happy to live in another country?
This
question is great for two reasons, it shows the girl that you are looking to
the future and are therefore serious, and it also helps you know her mind as
well. Her response can tell you a lot
about her.
* I want to
stay in Thailand – She needs to stay close to her family, she has a career that
she enjoys or she is not confident about the wider world. The average Thais schooling doesn’t extend
much past the borders of Thailand.
* Up to my
man – as long as she is being taken care of she will do whatever is required.
* I want to
live another country – Either she is confident and has a sense of adventure or
she desperately wants to escape the life that she has now.
2. What’s your job?
An obvious
question, but a very important one.
A Thai girl
that works in a bank, an office, as a nurse or as a teacher is less likely to
have had casual sexual encounters with foreigners.
A girl that
works in a tourist area as front of house in a hotel, massage palour or at a
bar (obviously) are normally very actively looking for a foreign boyfriend. Many of these girls that you date in (not pay
for) in tourist areas will not insist on you using a condom and if they’re not
making you wear one, they’re not making anyone else wear one. Think about it. Always stay safe.
If a girl
tells you that she is unemployed or that she has stopped work to travel.
Alarm bells.
There is no
form of unemployment benefit paid in Thai and so they must be getting money
from somewhere. It is also impossible
for the average Thai girl to travel without having a job to fund that
travel. Her job may well be as a
“holiday girlfriend” and to travel with one man after another.
FYI, an
office worker will only get 12 days annual leave per year, plus 13 government
mandated Public Holidays. Government
employees get even more public holidays. J
3. Tell me about your family?
Family is
very important to virtually all Thai girls.
Again, this
question shows her that you are serious and allows you to determine the size of
her family and her / your financial liability to care for that family.
Do the
parents work! How old are the parents!
Thai men can
support their extended family financially, but society places very little
obligation on them to do so. But if a
girl doesn’t take care of her parents, she is looked at in a very poor light.
4. Have you had a boyfriend farang before?
Allows you
to determine how open the girl is. It is
extremely common for Thai people to shield the truth if they feel that the
truth is going to offend or to hurt a person, including themselves. If the girl gets defensive or is offended by
this question, ask further questions to find out why or simply move on to your
next potential love match.
This
question can also let you know how experienced the girl is with other cultures. You are not just accepting her culture, she
must embrace yours as well.
Also, ask
her how many farang boyfriends she has had.
If she
answers, no I’ve never had a boyfriend farang.
Don’t be shy
to politely ask her if she has had sex with a farang before.
I’ve had
many girls tell me that they have never had a foreign boyfriend, but they have gone
on to tell me that they have had sex with up to 10 different foreign men. It’s common for Thai girls to think that
farang love sex and so they often use sex to try to make a man love them.
5. Send
me your photos sexy!
Yes, it’s a
rude question. But you’re asking it to
find out if she’s a good girl or not.
You must ask
this question before you build any sort of connection with the girl. If you ask after you have formed a
connection, she will probably send because she trusts you and cares about you.
If she too
readily agrees to send photos to you, remember, those same photos will be
sitting on the PC’s of many other men.
A good Thai
girl will send you a sexy photo in which she is fully clothed, she won’t even
send you a bikini photo.
A good, but
adventurous girl, will make sexy photos for you and send to you after you have
built a strong connection and she trusts you implicitly.
Conversely,
bad girl will have a selection of photos at the ready to send out upon receiving
each request.
I
hope that you have found this information useful.
Please
put any questions that you might have in the comments section below. I will do my best to answer as quickly and as
accurately as possible.
We
look forward to seeing you back here again very soon.
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care
Brad
& Ta
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